I am not a fan of Toke Makinwa, but to be honest, she doesn't deserve all the insults meted out on her for this video, mostly from Nigerian guys. As far as I am concerned, Toke has not said anything bad. In fact, she made so really really valid points that you are domesticated and can do household chores doesn't mean you should go and slave for a man that is not your husband.
Going to a guy's house everyday to cook, clean, scrub and service him at night is not a guarantee that he will marry you I have seen a case where a girl slaved for a man n his mum and at the end of the day they guy married someone else some women do these things at the beginning and the moment the guy marries them they stop doing the same chores that got them then ring. Love has no condition, men know their wives from the moment they set eyes on them a chores or not. I have a friend who can't cook to save their lives or even pick up a broom, but they are married why because the guys loved them for who they are.
I am not saying don't cook for your boyfriend if the need arises or clean up if the house needs cleaning up once in a while, all I am saying is don't make it a by fire by thunder he must marry me thing, make I had I known no come to be the end of your story. It is not the criteria for being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at the end of the day, ladies/guys just pray to God for the right partner, period.
Ladies, play smart, apply wisdom if you are a girlfriend and not a wife. Just be you, never pretend or try to be who you are not, just to hook a guy if he is the one, he will love you unconditionally and without attachments or conditions.
In other news, ladies, go and learn how to cook, it's very important, it's one of the many ways to a man's heart *winks*
Well done, Toke, as for the aspects I don't agree with, we'll discuss at another day.
Merry Christmas y'all
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