YOU ARE NOT A GOOD PERSON IF YOU ........


Good morning, beautiful people, how are you all doing? I woke up this morning with a burden in my spirit to write this down. I honestly don’t know why, but maybe it’s for someone who consciously or unconsciously displays these attitudes. I pray the Holy Spirit works in you, in Jesus’ name. I will be listing my thoughts in bullet points to make it easy for us. Also, feel free to disagree and kindly add your opinion in the comment section

You are not being a good person when…

·       You receive a gift, and the first thing you do is Google the price. Why? Do you realise that it is not the price of the gifts that matters, but the thought behind them? Do you know their financial capability at that time? What if it is below your standard? will you return it? Indeed, you are not a good person; you clearly have the spirit of ingratitude.

·       You compliment someone, but the moment they walk away, you search online for the cost of what they’re wearing to know if they can afford it or if you can afford it. This is a sign of envy, and the bible says in the book of Proverbs 14:30 “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”. By the way, you do not just have the spirit of covetousness, you have the spirit of envy.

·       You dislike people for their achievements instead of being happy for them. Remember, we all have our own unique paths and destinies. Celebrating others comes with a blessing. The bible tells us in the book of Romans 12:15 “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”

·       You expect others to dim their light so you can feel good about yourself; you are always looking for ways to put their lights off. This shows you have low self-esteem and jealousy toward their growth. Go and read the book of Matthew 5:14-16  “You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

·       You feel happy when others face challenges, thinking, “Finally, their life is at a standstill.” Maka chukwu ibu a very wicked person. Let me just drop this here for you, Obadiah 1:12 “Do not gloat over your brother in the day of his misfortune.”

·       You constantly speak negatively about people, especially your friends, both in front of them and behind their backs. This isn’t “just banter”; it reveals the true condition of your heart towards them ibu ezigbo onye njoo. For example: someone says, “Aww, James is such a nice guy. I’ve heard people say wonderful things about him.” Instead of agreeing and adding your own positive thoughts, you reply, “Really? Haha! Wait until you get close to him, you’ll see he’s not.” But deep down, you know he is nice, you’re just envious because people don’t say the same about you. Have you forgotten what the bible said in the book of Ephesians 4:29? It says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.”

People can sense negative energy. It’s like a strong, unpleasant perfume that repels others. Niceness, on the other hand, is a sweet fragrance that draws people in. Even the elements and the universe respond to kindness. 2 Corinthians 2:15  “For we are to God the pleasing aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing.”

It costs nothing to be nice. I understand you are not perfect, and you may not like everyone you meet, but you can still be cordial, kind, and respectful. Do you read your bible? If yes, you must have come across Colossians 3:12 that tells us “Therefore, as God’s chosen people… clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

As a Christian and a believer in our Lord Jesus Christ, remember: the Holy Spirit lives in you. He is love personified. He teaches you how to love people regardless of personal closeness. He gives you wisdom and discernment to live with agape love. Memorise this bible verse, Romans 5:5: “God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

If you see yourself in any of these attitudes, ask God to help you become a better person. God hates ugliness of the heart.

Hug yourself with this bible verse, Galatians 5:22-23: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk. Okay, byeeee! Time to pray for yous 


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