You all know I don't take myself seriously, right? so today, I shocked my kids; I got home to see them listening to music on Spotify. Usually, I would be blowing hot, but instead of my usual shout and lecture on the kind of songs they should be listening to, I decided to give them some funny dance moves; you need to see the shock on their faces. Yoma was like mum, you are actually vibing to Snoop Dog I said, I know; after videoing me, they joined in the fun. Sitting in my room and reflecting on what transpired in the living room and how the world had changed from when I was a kid, I realized as Christian parents, we must allow our kids to be kids and not be too rigid in the way we are bringing them up simply because we do not want them to be worldly, forgetting that they will grow up one day and face the world. We must give them room to grow and understand how the "world" functions so they don't become naive and helpless when they finally step out. While allowing them to understand the world's ways, we must make sure they know the devices of the enemy and prince of this world and not be deceived by him (2 Corinthians 2 v11). We should give them the freedom to be themselves to an extent we can control; this gives them room to make mistakes and grow. We should let them know that life is not that serious and must try not to make them feel scared or uncomfortable anytime we walk into the house but respect us as their parents. Do you know, after dancing and making sure they were relaxed, I lectured them on the importance of listening to the right music haha (as the typical African mum that I am)? I explained that I would not be there with them 24/7 because they were growing up and would go to school/work and live their lives on their own someday. I told them not to allow negativity to influence them. Not to get carried away in the moment and let things that are of no impact spiritually and otherwise take the place of God in the. They should remember the kind of home they come from. I ended the conversation with I know you are good children, and by the grace of God, I did a good job, and I am proud of them. I also reminded them that I will continue to talk as a Nigerian mum until all my teeth fall off, haha.
Teach them about God and family values, and let them know that it's okay to have fun; however, they must never get lost in the moment. Most importantly, never, I repeat, never let anything take the place of God in their lives. Teach them to make the right decisions, and tell them the implications of making the wrong choice and keeping the bad friends. I can not overemphasize the importance of telling them the pros and cons of the internet. As a parent, you are their first role model so make sure you live a life that portrays godliness. You have to show them what it means to be imitators of Christ. Teach them the word, and make them understand the benefits of the word as stated in Psalm 119 v 105 so they do not depart from it. Also, it will give them a solid foundation and backing to lean on when life happens.
Teach them the fear of God and its benefits (Prov 9v10). Make sure to use the three keys of parenting: training, love and discipline. The Bible explains this in Proverbs 22 v 26, Titus 2 v3-4, and Proverbs 13 v 24. I am sure there are other books in the Bible that we can learn from. If you know any, kindly leave them in the comment box below. By the way, I said discipline your child and not brutalize them or kill them; DISCIPLINE THEM IN LOVE. Teach your children to love by loving them and the people around you; teach them God is love (1 John 4 v 7, 1 John 4 v 8, 1 John 4 v 16)
Finally, kids will be kids, and they will explore; my prayer is they should explore and make mistakes around us and not around friends who will lead them astray. Remember, kids, are a heritage from God and a blessing to you (Psalm 127:3-5). Bringing them up the right way should be key because God wants to see them grow responsibly in love, grace and wisdom. Never forget one day, you will give account to God on how you nurtured the seed he gave you. Also, your kids reflect on you, and people are watching closely (Proverbs 20 v 11). God is faithful enough to hold your hand and walk you through the journey of parenthood. Our responsibility as parents is to guide them by the power and the grace of the Holy Spirit. Always go on our knees to intercede for them.
Are you born again? If not, would you love to give your life to Christ? If yes, then say these prayers.
Dear Lord Jesus, I come before you this day; I am a sinner, and I believe you are the son of God and have the power to change me. I believe you died on the cross to save us. I surrender my life to you, come and dwell in me and take absolute control. Lord, help me to live a life that glorifies you, amen.
If you said this prayer of salvation, I want to personally welcome you to the beautiful family of Christ. Kindly look for a bible believing church where you will learn and grow in the Lord. I love you with the love of Christ. Please do keep in touch.
ALWAYS PUT THE GOD FACTOR WHEN IT COMES TO ANY AND EVERYTHING
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